Exotic Dancing Becomes Socially Acceptable from Society Shifts
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Mar
13
2012
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From women who’ve worked on Wall Street to women paying their way through college, exotic dancing has saved many women’s lives, careers, and even their children from the alternative of moms loosing their homes and even their jobs in this economy. All without having to compromise their moral values like in much of the infamous myths about this profession!
If you are apprehensive about doing this business of exotic dance I completely understand! Or maybe you have taken the plunge and there are people in your life that have a big problem with it. This apprehension happens mostly because society has always trained women to do only what is traditionally considered ladylike, socially acceptable, and polite. This is why most women in the previous century were either teachers, nurses, or secretaries – not that those things are bad at all – but what if a lady didn’t want to do that? What if she wanted to be an engineer? Too Bad – secretary school for her! Women were also told to cover their ankles and shoulders because it was provocative. I say that trying to control women’s decisions, lives, and limiting their options of FREEDOM for the sake of ego, power, and medieval ideals is the most horrid evil around! However, things are a lot different now than they used to be, and there are quite a few examples of this.
Here I am as a Hooters Girl in College!
Consider the following points of reference.
Working at Hooters. Before I became an exotic dancer, like so many young college women today, around my sophomore year in college I became a Hooters girl. The truth is that exotic dancing is very similar to a Hooters waitressing job; really there is not a huge difference between the two. You wear tight clothes, show cleavage, promote a fun atmosphere – and you get hit on by the clientele quite a bit. At Hooters there are many beautiful women all working in one place, and men come there seeking interaction and entertainment.
At Hooters, there are beautiful, friendly women working there that men avidly come in to talk to. These women give men a “GFE”—girlfriend experience—with an attractive young lady who will simply sit down with them and talk to them about their day. This is exactly what exotic dancers do. We will show men or women that we are interested in who they are and what they have to say, not just in selling them our looks, food, or drinks.
There is, however, one major difference: the income! It’s amazing that I worked hundreds of hours at Hooters during my two–year stay, but within the first few months of being a dancer I made much more money than I ever could have dreamed of making at Hooters.
This is just one example of how exotic dancing is like any other established, respectable business. It all comes down to sales and marketing: The business aspect of exotic dancing is like running and promoting any other company, and it is the best business education you can get as a young person because there is little risk, no going into debt, no overhead and you have no employees. Just you, starting with the basics and learning how to be independently wealthy without the headache of having to get a business loan or please investors on the chance that you might make a profit.
Click here to read more >>How to be a Stripper: a Respectable Business Like Any Other
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Jan
27
2012
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Hi It’s Jennifer again and in our last video called, My Stripping Stories and How Women Today are Approaching Pole Dancing as a Career, we talked about how women today are approaching pole dancing as a profession and saving their lives, their jobs, their homes and even their children from the alternative of loosing their homes and their jobs in this economy. And they aren’t just surviving, they are thriving on an amazing income that gives them the freedom to pay their bills, pay for their education, buy a nice home, a nice car and go on vacation!
You might say, Now wait a second – Do you expect me to actually take this kind of risk? To venture into a sleazy bar – dance in front of an audience – and then proceed to take my top off? That’s truly ludicrous!
But Wait – other than the fact that learning how to be a stripper is a respectable business in today’s world and that you don’t have to compromise your moral and ethical values that we talked about on our last video – Can you think of any other profession that allows you to go from nothing – having no knowledge about the industry or any formal education at all – to being able to audition after simply watching my videos for an hour or two, and begin making hundreds of thousands of dollars the same day?
Click here to read more >>My Stripping Stories and How Women Today are Approaching Pole Dancing as a Career
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Jan
24
2012
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Exotic Dancing isn't as bad as the stigmas would have you believe!
Many of my Stripping Stories on how women today are approaching pole dancing as a career will shock you – including my own. From women who’ve worked on Wall Street to women paying their way through college, you will learn why pole dancing has saved so many women’s lives, careers, their homes, and even their children from the alternative of loosing their homes and their jobs in this economy. The underworld of exotic dancing has emerged from a maze of mystery and misconception into the mainstream with media coverage from respected sources such as CNBC, OWN, FOX news and more.
The first time the opportunity to try exotic dancing was presented to me after I graduated from college at age 25, I swore I would never do such a thing. I thought it was wrong – dirty, unhealthy and unsafe. It was, perhaps surprisingly, my fiance who suggested it to me after he had consulted with one of our dancer friends about the cleanliness and high standards of our local business club. He knew I was on the “30-year mortgage plan” with my student loans and credit card debt, and he wanted to empower me. But – the point here is – like so many closed minded individuals today, I had never been to a club and I automatically assumed that it was nothing but pimping, whoring and drug use. I was abhorred at the suggestion and shot it down rather quickly.
Reluctantly we went to our local club and started talking to one of the bouncers. The bouncer thought we were really cool so he went and got the head manager. The manager could see that we were serious and professional, and finally he asked me, “What can I do to get you on my stage?” I was flabbergasted! I thought the prospective dancers asked him that question! Come to find out they do – but I stood out somehow.
Click here to read more >>Lap Dances are a Worthy Art Form Both Physically and Legally
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Dec
10
2011
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And they're saying THIS doesn't take skills?!
We had the pleasure of making Bloomberg News in regards to the debate, “Is Lap Dancing Art?” Just take a look at the pictures and videos in this blog post for your answer! “Here’s Your Sign!”
This is what we told Bloomberg: “To make a lap dance work, I had to combine concepts from gymnastics, things I learned from pole dancing, belly dancing I learned in college and even martial arts,” McCumber said in a telephone interview. “You have to have physical and mental agility to perform, while also making it seductive and alluring.”
A prominent dance anthropologist and professor at the University of Maryland who specializes in studying all types of dance, Judith Hanna, has stated:
“Exotic dance shares with virtually all dance genres the fact that it is a purposeful, intentionally rhythmical, culturally patterned, nonverbal, body movement communication in time and space. It conveys meaning by the use of space, touch, proximity to an observer, nudity, stillness and specific body movements.”
Coming from an artistic education background myself, it is a shame that exotic dancing has been marginalized for the nudity it contains, as if nudity were bad in and of itself. That’s like saying guns kill people. I have news for you: people kill people! We are all born nude, we shower nude, we were walking around nude before people told us we had to do otherwise. It is completely natural and evolved to be able to openly express nudity in art. Nudity is contained in Operas, musicals, theater, most movies that you go and see, and it is all over cable TV. So why is it that when it happens in real life in a gentlemen’s club, people get all bent out of shape?
Eric Langan, CEO of Rick’s Cabaret even states in the Bloomberg article
Click here to read more >>How to Sell Lap Dances and Champagne Rooms Part 5: How Flirting Can Make You Money!
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Oct
30
2011
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Probably one of the most effective – as well as most enjoyable – ways to show someone you are attracted to them is through the seductive art of flirting. It is a vital part of engaging your client in conversation, which I cover in detail in Freedom V, and it can be expressed though words, touch, posture, movement, or even a look. Flirting is one of the few means of communicating erotic interest while maintaining social propriety. Often the greatest power you can command through flirting is the ability to be subtle yet undeniable in your approach.
Sometimes flirting is done among friends as well, just to tell each other that they care. It is very important to show that you are interested in your client because it’s one of men’s basic needs– to be admired and appreciated for who they are and what they do.
Here Are Some Of My Top Flirting Techniques:
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Sep
14
2011
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Thanks to our friends at TabuToys for their awesome stripper poles and dancewear!
Click here to read more >>How to Become a Stripper – Getting Started on Your First Night at the Right Club
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Aug
29
2011
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Here is the video transcript for your reading pleasure!
Choosing the best club for you and getting started working as an entertainer can be challenging. I’ve had questions from dancers asking, “how can I present myself to make the most money? What do I wear? How do I handle all of the men I work with? How can I avoid being intimidated and feeling sub-par compared to all of the other beautiful dancers?
One of the most important things you do in your life is to make a first impression. Many other exotic dancer stories tell how someone started out horribly, made no money on the first night, and were scared out of their minds, having no idea what was going on. I will help you to avoid this scenario in its harshest forms. Of course, be reasonable with your expectations: don’t think you can just waltz in and make a thousand dollars on your first night! Just do your best starting out and be satisfied with that.
Click here to read more >>How to Become a Stripper FAQ
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Jul
3
2011
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Raging Stripper Hormones and Lap Dances
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Jun
26
2011
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It is so important that exotic dancers get tested for their hormone levels. Do you find yourself moody, exhausted, or getting ticked off at your customers more and more? Are you feeling that sensation of stripper burn-out? Depression? Or do you get headaches, migraines, PMS, bloating, or are you having trouble loosing that last bit of belly, thigh or hip fat? If so check this out!
Click here to read more >>Freedom V For Exotic Dancers
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May
22
2011
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