Ultimate Exotic Dancer’s Strategy for Success
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May
10
2011
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Jenn on Stage!
Throughout my career as an exotic dancer I’ve seen it all. I know you know what I mean! Stripping has a way of educating you on all sorts of people, how to act in social situations, how to dress and shape your body, how to develop a winning edge in your sales skills and how to be an independent business woman.
I’ve come up with this list of the top 10 ways that you can be successful as an exotic dancer – whether you are just learning how to become a stripper or whether you’ve been dancing for 10 years. It will also embed success skills for when you move on in your life and in your career. Having this visual in your locker, dressing room, mirror or refrigerator will work wonders at helping you to stay on your A game!
1. Find your inner hunger and your inner passion, and commit yourself to living it. Let your desire to attain your dreams fuel your will and your drive to succeed. Be flexible and learn to rebound when obstacles appear. Having tough skin and a solid sense of yourself and your goals is necessary in life and in this business.
2. Determine what you really want out of life. Turn that knowledge into your life goal. What are you willing to do–or do without–in order to achieve it? Write it down and remind yourself daily what you are going to achieve. There is no reward without sacrifice, but the greatest sacrifice is living without reward. Don’t let anything stop you!
Click here to read more >>Interview with Tali De’Mar and Clips from EXPO Las Vegas 2010
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May
3
2011
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Events
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May
18
2010
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Las Vegas Expo and Tradeshow
I will be speaking on a panel with other experts about the importance of Dancer to Customer communication and how this affects the club’s bottom line. What can an EXOTIC DANCER reveal to you that you HAVEN’T seen? Come and find out. EXPO & Tradeshow details: This is the largest gathering of the year of the owners and operators of the multi-billion-dollar adult nightclub industry.
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THE CONVENTION:
- A three-day conference and tradeshow for the adult nightclub industry with more than 3,000 attendees.
- Daily panel sessions with industry leaders addressing legal, marketing, management and insurance topics; alcohol sales; club sound; lighting and renovations; employee relations; new products; and much more.
- Two-day tradeshow with 450-plus booths.
- Opening Night Party.
- Industry Appreciation Party.
- Adult Nightclub Awards Show, Vegas showroom-style.
- Membership meeting of the Association of Club Executives (ACE).
- Produced by E.D. Publications, publishers for 20 years of the Annual Adult Nightclubs and Vendors Guide and the bimonthly Club Bulletin business magazine.
THE ATTENDEES:
- The Annual EXPO draws over 3,000 attendees, including over 1,700 adult nightclub owners, club executives, general managers, bartenders, floor managers, DJs and club personnel from individual clubs and club chains.
- Other EXPO attendees include liquor, beer and wine distributors; food and beverage companies; club furnishings and products companies; attorneys, architects, club brokers and insurance specialists; sound, lighting and staging companies; health, beauty and apparel companies; and computer and internet specialists.
THE INDUSTRY:
- Gentlemen’s clubs represent the highest-grossing segment of the nightclub industry. There are more than 3,000 adult nightclubs in North America which employ over 500,000 dancers and support staff, and serve 1.6 million customers a day. Adult nightclubs lead the industry in alcohol sales; they are a multi-billion-dollar industry.
CONTACT:
- To reserve booth space or be a sponsor at EXPO 2010, please contact Gary Daugherty or Lacy Empkey at (727) 726-3592 or email them at gary@EDpublications.com or lacy@EDpublications
WHAT ARE YOU REALLY AFRAID OF? A PERSPECTIVE ON Society’s PARADIGM SHIFTS.
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Mar
7
2010
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If you are apprehensive about doing this business of exotic dance I completely understand! Or maybe you have taken the plunge and there are people in your life that have a big problem with it. This apprehension happens mostly because society has always trained women to do only what is traditionally considered ladylike, socially acceptable, and polite. This is why most women in the previous century were either teachers, nurses, or secretaries – not that those things are bad at all – but what if a lady didn’t want to do that? What if she wanted to be an engineer? Too Bad – secretary school for her! Women were also told to cover their ankles and shoulders because it was provocative. I say that trying to control women’s decisions, lives, and limiting their options of FREEDOM for the sake of ego, power, and medieval ideals is the most horrid evil around! However, things are a lot different now than they used to be, and there are quite a few examples of this.
Consider the following:
Point of Reference: Working at Hooters. Before I became an exotic dancer, like so many young college women today, around my sophomore year in college I became a Hooters girl. The truth is that exotic dancing is very similar to a Hooters waitressing job; really there is not a huge difference between the two. You wear tight clothes, show cleavage, promote a fun atmosphere – and you get hit on by the clientele quite a bit. At Hooters there are many beautiful women all working in one place, and men come there seeking interaction and entertainment.
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